Being a Parent

An enormous amount of time is spent preparing for labour and delivery, yet this usually happens within the space of about 24 hours. Parenting is for the rest of your life – you will never stop being a parent. It is probably the most important job you will ever do and yet you get the least amount of training. It’s not like a job where you can take a holiday. You are totally responsible for someone – perhaps for the first time in your life – 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year.

While most parents easily bond with their babies, for some it can take time – weeks, or even months.

Young father playing with his daughter inside with toys

There is no right answer to parenting – everyone has an opinion on how to parent. Being a parent for the first time, you can expect to be confused or anxious about doing the right thing, as well as exhausted and sleep deprived.

While most parents easily bond with their babies, for some it can take time – weeks, or even months. Be patient – try to relax and get to know your new baby. They have to get to know you, too. There will be that magic moment when everything clicks.

Expecting to be a perfect parent is unrealistic – you are going to put too much pressure on yourself. Try to set realistic goals for yourself. Plan for being a ‘good enough’ parent. The most important thing is to try to relax with your baby and enjoy them, as they grow so quickly. It’s important that you develop a close and loving relationship with them, as well as making sure all their needs are met.

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